Monday, February 24, 2020

LOVE -THE CAMPUS WAY


Hello everyone, today we talk about toxic relationships in campus.

In all human endeavours it is said that life is better shared. Everyone needs someone close to share emotional relationships with.  It is the field that gets worked on most to attain a healthy and mutual togetherness. Still some people find themselves in abusive relationships.
Not to say that only the weak are victims of this. Even couples that started off as the strongest bonds find themselves torn down to these toxic relationships.so holding on to toxic relationships at the end brings harm or even death.it is mostly seen in campuses where you get one student killing the other in the name of he cheated or did this and that.
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student stabbed by ex lover
Standard Media
On 14th April 2019, at the Pwani University, a student was allegedly stabbed several times by his ex-lover and left fighting for her life at Kilifi County Hospital student. It is said that the ex-lover travelled all the way to demand answers as to why Naomi returning Ksh 3200 he had sent her. Why try killing your ex-lover for re-sending back your money???A little mistake that affects the mind-set.

In an article posted by standard media, “The rush for getting into a relationship among campus students makes one fall in love with a stranger ”a person who is not into the relationship hence taking advantage of the one who fell in love. This type of relationship doesn’t work out and many at times one partner is being abused, either physically or emotionally but they can't leave.Sometimes it's due to fear of losing someone they love so much, or maybe because of what other people would think. Other times it’s because of co-dependency; where they both really hurt each other but they love each other and can't leave each other because they depend on one another.

How do you overcome this toxic relationships? First you have to decide on your decision.is it love or lust? Decision made what next? Stick to it. Know someone associate yourself with him or her and get to know each other. If he or she is toxic, stay away! Surround yourself with positivity and control yourself. That way you will be able to stay away from toxic relationships. Love the campus way…take care
That's for today. Thank you☝

53 comments:

  1. Great perspective on the topic, continue with the challenge

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  2. May this reach more people cause this is a topic most people ignore thank you for reminding us. Love should begin with ourselves so at to be loved.

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  3. It Should get out there🔀🇧🇿🇰🇿⌨️⏰⏰☑️🔥🔥

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  4. This is a good staff keep on moving bro

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  5. These are amazing facts..keep up😊

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  6. Doing good work shem🤗🤗🤗

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  7. Its good that you shared this message it might change a life or lives.. Who knows. Keep up.

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  8. I think one should actually know what they getting into once you accept a relationship...why stay if it's toxic?

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  9. At the end of the day I would emphasis on the fact that someone should know if what he or she is feelin is love or lust jus to play safe...

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  10. It's just wise not to rush things... Especially for us.. the youth... These things come slow.. and i really don't think there's need ti rush inti relationships.. especially if they turn out toxic... ✨✨

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  11. Honestly i feel like we are just too young to make ourselves feel so old. If a relationship is mentally exhausting, that's just the beginning of a toxic one.

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  12. Falling in love with a stranger is one huge step thus understanding love it self needs patience 💯

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  13. You truly have captured all dynamics...Great article and well said buddy

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  14. I think people fall in love so hard with their significant other when they are in a relationship and forgert to care about themselves and put themselves first and when the significant othet notices that they can easily take advantage of the other when he or she is not in love that deep so when the other realizes it is usually to late and ther have been used and most of them do not see the reason for them to live or the ex partner to live thus leading to deaths

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  15. Nice piece of art arraigned with most carefully placed words in their own context🔥✨

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  16. Mwenye pupa hadiriki kula tamu...great one

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  17. We should bring this to an end..
    Great art, mr

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  18. Good work 👍 I think a relationship is not something to rush into. It should begin with friendship it helps get to understand someone better

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  19. Indeed its saddening that most of the youths are in toxic relationship when asked why they say its love that keeps them their not knowing that they are hurting,
    Thanks Mwinyi for bringing this topic back indeed it has to be discussed in details.

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  20. True bro wise decision on this issue is very important

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  21. Nothing is worth giving your life for... Put yourself first let everything else come second... Simple.nice nice article Uthman🔥🔥🔥

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  22. This needs to get a bigger audience. Harsh reality

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  23. If you take away your life remember someone else will come replace you... So love yourself first💕

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  24. You will reap what you sow. You can take that to the BANK

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  25. Love is the best thing that exists...all commotion is s
    As a result of the ego in humans

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  26. People should know what they're doing before dating

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  27. Nice piece touching exactly what's going on in our society...

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  28. A nice research done,keep up,coz its something that happens and people should consider this

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  29. No need of loving or date and yet there is no love in return moreover no honesty no trust...nice research 👍💯

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  30. A bitter pill to swallow..🚶so controversial to what we feel yet so true

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  31. A bitter pill to swallow..🚶so controversial to what we feel yet so true

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  32. Let's all shun this unhealthy relationship out of our society

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  33. Make a decision and stick to it.
    Great stuff

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  34. Wise words..... there ����������

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  35. This was so essential,its one thing that is affecting the present generation especially us youth.Most parents aren't there for their kids n relationships n stuff are hardly spoken of.Fake love n obsession has resulted to awful things.This was very thoughtful of you.Thanks for the enlightenment,thumbs up for you.Bravo!

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  36. Keep up with the good work...bravo😊

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